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My dear Dua
Thursday, May 01, 2008 - 6:11 PM

My dear Dua


Kurdishaspect.com – By Naskah Zada

A young man ran, stumbled, fell and crashed his head against a rock; an old man saw what happened, became very sad, sat down and started crying. The old man imagined himself in the younger mans place. The old man was a man who was concerned about human sufferings. He wanted us to think about other fellow human beings when they are in need of our help.

A year ago, Dua an innocent young women, was stoned to death in front of hundreds of her villagers. Among them were spectators and a few slaughterers, who so mercilessly murdered her. Of course, I had never met Dua, but I can’t stop thinking about her death.

Her last words were, “Mom, I am hungry.” I wonder, why she said that, was she really hungry and wanted to eat her Last Supper? Or was she hungry for Mom’s arms and wanted to find refuge in them? A year has past since her death  and I cannot get the scene of her tender body wallowing in her blood out of my mind! I wonder what those spectators felt when they saw her crying for help, for someone to rescue her!  Why no one stepped in to tell the stone throwers, STOP? !

Recently, Dua’s bloody murder scene reappeared in my head; I picked up the phone and called a friend to talk about Dua. I truly needed to talk about her. I needed someone to listen, a voice to comfort me, but to my surprise, the callous response astonished me. Are you still thinking about her death? Why don’t you get over it? She is dead, you know; my friend replied. How could my "friend" be so indifferent? I said to myself…Dua was a beautiful soul and full of life.

Dua was murdered, because the soul mate she chose was not in her religious cast, thus, he was not accepted by her kin. This was a good enough reason for those heartless creatures to end her life in the most savage way.

As I said, I never met Dua, but I feel like she was my dear sister and they took her away from me. I feel we had lived together, and shared our joys and sorrows. But, I also feel I let her down, because I could not help her when she needed help. I feel embarrassed and guilty, something I will have to live with it for the rest of my life. I know I will always miss her. I can never forget what happened to her that dreadful afternoon.

Ever since her death, I have been asking myself, if ever, even in the pre-historic time, any living things as cruel as human beings have lived in this planet? I truly believe there are no souls other than human beings’ who could possess such cruelty!

Dua, you will always live in my memory, and I always will love you.

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ka
Friday, October 02, 2009 - 1:21 AM
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Ara Alan
Monday, May 19, 2008 - 11:42 AM
Change is possible
Angel,
The world that we live in is not perfect some times it is very far from perfect. Our honor should be ur pride. our honor should be what we do Our honor should be our national honor. we shouldnt let anyone touch insult rape or humuliate our national honor as a nation and as Kurds. Most those people who take their anger and lack of right upbringing of their children out by kiling them have no honor! they lack nasional Honor.
Those people are actualy OK with other countries to occupy and take Kurdistan. that is their real honor.
We have to educate our people to stand for what is justice and truth. Belive me we cannot free Kurdistan unless it is by the support of Kurdish women. Kurdish women cannot fight with unless they are free.
How can I stand here speak of opression when at the same time I would be gulty of hurting, tourcharing and murdering another person? Not an enemy but one of my own my own blood a Kurdish girl.
We have to break that mentality that Kurdish Honor is all on Kurdish girls and this honor can be broken if she does something! our Kurdish honor should be on all of us man and women. Kurdish girls are very honorable because they cary their own honor just as a Kurdish man should do. The honor to love and sacrifice for Kurdistan nothing else
ANGEL
Friday, May 16, 2008 - 8:23 AM
IF YOU SAY SO
ARA LET ME TELL YOU THIS? IF YOU HAD A DAUGHTER AND SHE ACTUALLY RAN AWAY WITH SOME GUY THAT WAS NOT UR RACE WHAT WOULD YOU DO? I WISH EVERYBODY HAD THE SAME FEELING AS YOU DID BECAUSE THE WORLD WOULD BE PERFECT. I THANK YOU.
Ara Alan
Wednesday, May 14, 2008 - 5:55 PM
We should keep talking about Dua
Angel I agree, that there were people that werent Yezidis when they killed Dua. Duas family actualy werent involved. Other girls like dua become shahid by their own dad or brothers hand. We should talk about not because it hasnt happened in USbut because it happens in the world. In Europe Kurdish community have this problem thank god in US we havent heard of such crimes. we should educate our peopel and let everyone know that this is not HONOR this is a crime!
ANGEL
Tuesday, May 13, 2008 - 7:19 AM
I am not saying its not true
HI Ara:
What you are saying is very true but trust me yezidis will never change there beliefs they'll try to kill any girl that goes if they could but here in america as all of you know not alot of that crime happens do to laws and if I could change anything or help I would do it asap. Yezidi leaders say that we as yezidis and muslims are all brothers but he is a lair inside his heart he is just saying F everybody. Do to that fact I do not like my people and i dont consider them as my people anymore after seeing what has happened to Dua. I have family memebers that knew Dua's family and they said many many people that were not yezidi were standing right next to her while they were stoning her and none of them steped in and tried to save Dua. Know you tell me we gona talk about it to try to prevent it from happening.
Ara Alan
Wednesday, May 07, 2008 - 1:31 PM
We should remember
Hi Angel,
What happen to Dua happens to many Kurdish Girls it doesnt make a difference whether she is Yezidi, Musilim, christian, Jewish, kakay, alevi, kirmanji, sorani, hewrami, zaza, luri it happens to Kurdish girls.
This type of situation is actualy much less common among Yezidi Kurds. We have to remember and respect Dua for what happened to her to be a voice for all Kurdish girls that suffer like she did. Her dad and brotheres were not even part of what happened to her. Reguardless of who was part of it It was a crime against Humanity it was a crime against us all. We have to be out spoken so that no one will think that commiting a crime is permissible! If we keep quite these crimes will happen more often.that is why we should work and speak about it. I understand you saying writing this will not undo what happend to DUA but in can prevent another Dua.
I am ME
Tuesday, May 06, 2008 - 11:47 AM
Inspiration
This is sad, I saw part of the clip myself and it really hurt me and crushed me to know that her own family and villagers did that to her. I do not think they took the time to understand her story; they just jumped to conclusions. Just like Naskah this situation still comes to my mind and wish things would change for the better in our society.

Naskah I know it hurts you and so it does too many other people. However, you should not feel embarrassed or guilty about it. Do something to help our Kurdish girls, do something to help parents realize and understand today’s society. Let her be your inspiration to become a better you and change humanity for the better.

ANGEL
Monday, May 05, 2008 - 9:19 AM
WOW
WOW WHY U GUYS PUT THIS PART UP I THINK IT IS REALLY SAD AND SHOULDN'T BE TALKED ABOUT BECAUSE I MYSELF AM A YEZIDI AND I SURE DONT THINK IT WAS RIGHT ON WHAT HAD HAPPENED TO THAT GIRL BUT AS MANY OF U KNOWS HER FAMILY PAID TO GET HER VIDEOS OFF THE INTERNET AND I RECOMMEND YOU GUYS TO TAKE THAT PIECE OF WRITING OUT AS WELL. I KNOW ITS SOMETHING EVERYBODY SHOULD KNOW ABOUT, BUT IF THEY DONT HELP MIND AS WELL LET IT BE. THANKS
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